Dear me,

I’ve noticed that you have been exhausted. Worried that you’re going to lose things like your car, house, mind, or most importantly and hopefully not, your kids.

Sure, money is tight, but you have been in harder places before, and you have always seemed to make it through to laugh about it later. Although through that hardship, regardless of what it was, you still made it. And so, you can do it again!

Yes, some of us may not be in our twenties anymore but we all had something that we didn’t have before. Do you remember what it was?

For me it was my daughter. She was my main focus, a goal per say, to stay in balance, in order to get my hussle on and do what I had to do. Everything I did, I did for her. Then when things were back in order, I rewarded myself.

So, what is it that you want to focus on to reach your goals to bring back the balance in your life? It can be anything, self-image of improvement, a dog, your own kid, a significant other, the possibilities are endless. So don’t feel that you are stuck on just one thing or that you have to pick one thing. You can have as many as you want! Whatever helps keep you motivated.

We all know that there are many opportunities out there, but we have to hunker down, get over our fears of failure and try something new and just do it.

Sure, you may not know a lot about computers or apps or even know where to start. The way I think about it is, that things will always change and you’re going to have to get over it and get on board or go down sinking with the ship. For some, that is what has to be done to get in gear of what needs to be done. We ourselves become our own life rafts. Only we can change what we want to do and when we want it to happen. We just have to sidestep out of our comfort zones or our fears and just enjoy learning something new to start something new.

In my eyes, you’ve already begun. Want to know how I know? It’s because you are here! This, right here, is the first step in wanting to do something about it. Getting the courage from a complete stranger, who believes in you, to help you take that next step.

So, what do you say? How about we shake off those fears and insecurities and get out there and show the world who we really are!

You got this!

Sincerely me