Would you please stop going back to the people who hurt you! Because no matter how many times you forgive them, you are right back where you started. They know all your buttons. They know your next move before you do and even your next stop. You’ve removed them from your life before, this time let’s remove them permanently. You don’t need them anymore. You deserve people who won’t hurt you and who would be there for you, not to use you.

Now they will be persistent, like an annoying knock on the door but you can always choose not to answer it. Hopefully, this time around, you won’t open the door. Reason so, deep down, you already know that they will repeat their nonsense. Even though you secretly hope that they won’t, they will. It’s sort of like a broken record player. They will continue to do the same cycle and then the thing gets stuck on the same song. So, lets break off this tune and find another to play.

You deserve to be treated with respect and with honesty, not with trickery and deceit. With this continuous of beating your heart, you’re not giving it time to heal. When you continue to allow the people to disrespect you, you’re not only hurting yourself but giving them the idea that it’s ok to continue to hurt you. We don’t want this! Again, you don’t deserve it!

Now it’s time for the hard part. You have to learn to let these people go! You need to learn the difference between what’s good for us and what’s not. You need to look for people who make you happy, to be loved and feel like a whole person instead of half of one.

I believe in you, and I believe that you will know what to do after that. Do you know how I know? Because I know us, and I believe we deserve so much more!

So, Let’s go out and find it, shall we?

Love Always,

Me